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Extraordinarily Rude Behavior Around the World

by Louie Jerome on 12/12/08 at 9:34 am

If you are travelling around the world, or mixing with people from different cultures, it is really easy to fall into the trap and let yourself down by being rude and offensive. Many cultures have their own particular rules when it comes to being polite.




Customs vary in different parts of the world, so you can never be quite sure that you are giving the right message. These cultural differences can get you into a lot of trouble if you are visiting foreign countries.

If you are visiting India, take care because winking at someone is considered to be a sexual proposition. You might intend to be friendly but end up with a lot more attention than you bargain for.It might be best to avoid those little winkie smilies that you can add to emails too, esoecially if you have Indian friends, or colleagues.

photo credit: datapalooza.blog

In China you should be careful what you give as a gift because a present of a knife, or anything sharp could indicate to the recipient that you want to end a relationship, or a friendship. The knife here would not be a welcome gift in Japan, either. It’s red! Horror of horrors!

photo credit: swiissknifecompnay.com

Many Chinese people don’t like to be given clocks. A clock is considered to be a bad omen and a symbol of death. The clock doesn’t have to look like this one to cause offense. It could be a pretty delicate little timekeeper, or a diamond studed gold watch and it might still cause offense.

photo credit: wikipedia

Your Japanese friends may not be very happy if you give them something red. A red sweater, or red socks, a red handbag, or anything else may be quite upsetting because red is reserved for funerals in Japan.

In Japan you might get an unexpected reaction if you bought here a pair of these.

photo credit: fabsugar.com

If you are invited to dinner in France you shouldn’t take a bottle of wine. This could be taken as an insult because it indicates that you think that your host will not provide an adequate wine to accompany the meal, or even that your host might not have enough to satisfy everyone. Personally, I have no problem with anyone bringing me a bottle of wine, or two.

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In Indonesia you should not open a gift as soon as you receive it. If you do you may be considered greedy.

It is just as well that I don’t live in Indonesia. I love presents, no matter what they are. It is just so exciting to be given a beautifully wrapped gift that I can hardly wait to see whay is hidden inside.

photo credit: kiwigiftsolutions.nz

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CA Johnson

Dec 12th, 2008

Great article, Louie. I really felt like I learned a lot from it.

Bren Parks

Dec 12th, 2008

Very nice article. It was informative and entertaining at the same time. I lived in Athens, Greece for a year and found out (the hard way) that to show someone the palm of your hand (we call it waving in the U.S.) means you are putting five curses on five generations of someone. It was certainly a strange country to live in….:)

Darlene McFarlane

Dec 12th, 2008

This was a fun and interesting article. I found out many things I never knew or thought about.

James

Dec 12th, 2008

I think most of them are probably not true to be honest.

Alexa Gates

Dec 12th, 2008

Will have to remember these Louie :) Great article:) I can’t believe the one about the time pieces though :)

akilah

Dec 12th, 2008

I enjoyed this article… Very informative and interesting.

Lots

Dec 12th, 2008

oooh very interesting and good to know!

Inna Tysoe

Dec 12th, 2008

Very interesting. Thanks!

Inna

Ruby Hawk

Dec 12th, 2008

It was interesting and I learned something new, always a good thing.

PsychoButterfly

Dec 12th, 2008

very interesting and informative article!! keep up the good work!

Very interesting article!

Anne Lyken Garner

Dec 13th, 2008

You’ve done a good job, Louie. The article was enjoyable. Funny thing . . . When my husband and I lived in Paris, we always showed up to dinner with a bottle of wine or a dessert (or both). They always went down well. I suppose times have changed.

Louie Jerome

Dec 13th, 2008

There’s a discussion about the French and the wine here:

http://www.qi.com/talk/viewtopic.php?start=15&t=6094

Adam Henry Sears

Dec 13th, 2008

Hi Louie, how are you?
This is a pretty interesting and eye-opening article. Thanks for sharing.

Tokin

Dec 13th, 2008

The japanese thing is not true.

BC Doan

Dec 13th, 2008

Very enjoyable, and interesting. I learn something new from your article too!

Louie Jerome

Dec 13th, 2008

You are wrong Tokin.

Historically the colour red was associated in Japan with smallpox. The god that was responsible for this disease was red, so there was a superstition that red was the colour of smallpox and therefore a sign of inevitable death. (Ref: History of Shinto In Japan, Published by Pelican Books, 2000.) There are still people in Japan who follow the old religion of Shinto.

Lost in Arizona

Dec 13th, 2008

My friend Suki, freaked out once when I gave her a shirt that was red for her birthday. Her parents and relatives were mortified as well. When her mother explained to me why, I sheepishly apologized amongst all the glares, and gave my friend the receipt for an exchange…lol! It wasn’t until years later when I began studying anthropology that I understood why. Interesting facts on cultures from around the world.

JennyLee

Dec 13th, 2008

I like the helpful information and the pictures choosen were fun to look at. good job

Dialga

Dec 13th, 2008

It’s amazing how basic interactions with other people are treated depending on the culture.

bjr

Dec 13th, 2008

very informative about different cultures.

Anonymous

Dec 14th, 2008

Really nice article Louie. I really enjoyed reading it.

Speed Limit

Dec 14th, 2008

Very useful information if you visit South East Asia. I don’t.

SHAF MASTA

Dec 14th, 2008

wow there loads i didnt know here! Thanks for the info!

R J Evans

Dec 14th, 2008

Great, fun article – but with some points to remember on our travels!

Alvin Lim

Dec 15th, 2008

The Chinese don’t like clock as present because “giving clock” to someone means “song zhong” in Mandarin, which also means, you are attending someone’s funeral or is sending the corpse to the cemetery. Something along that line.

Nice article. I should really control myself from winking too much.

Chelsey

Dec 15th, 2008

I’ve been given red gifts while I’ve been in Japan, so I just asked my friend about it.
She said that it’s not insulting or bad or anything,
she was really confused and I actually had to explain the custom to her…

Betty Carew

Dec 15th, 2008

what a wonderful article. I really enjoyed it and it’s set up beautifully. I’m just a newbie and don’t know how to do the fancy stuff yet but i will learn. Thanks for the wonderful info.

Louie Jerome

Dec 15th, 2008

It’s like other customs and traditions, they change over time.

The Black Enigma

Dec 15th, 2008

Interesting article. Thanks for the info!!!

kathy mohler

Dec 15th, 2008

liked it , i personally wouldn’t go to any of those places but its good to know in case i change my mind.

Judy Sheldon

Dec 15th, 2008

I always loved sociology class. We would learn so many interesting things about different cultures, but then like anything else we have to be careful of sterotypes. I don’t want to mention any because I don’t believe them. There are some misconceptions – like not all blonds are dumb. Although I’ve had my share of moments. lol

Great article and wonderful pictures to complement it.

Michele Cameron Drew

Dec 15th, 2008

Well done, Louie, and a great idea. I have always found differences in cultural etiquette very interesting, especially being a “rude American”. I’m really glad you didn’t go into that little number. :P Great job!

-M

Bradness

Dec 15th, 2008

That was very informative and interesting, thanks!

Karen N

Dec 16th, 2008

Great article, it can be pretty easy to unknowingly give offense.

lilymom

Dec 16th, 2008

Wow! I had never heard of any of these cultural differences so the information is very much appreciated.

R.B. Parsley

Dec 16th, 2008

Louie,
I enjoyed your article. Its quite interesting how things from one country can have the opposite meaning in another country. I’m a winker and I like to smile a lot too. Even though I have no plans of traveling overseas, but in case I do, I will read this article again so I’ll know what not to do. Excellent article Louie!!! Have a very Merry Christmas!

Randy

Bo Jack Russo

Dec 22nd, 2008

Very interesting stuff,my first read of yours.

Rana Sinha

Jan 1st, 2009

Very interesting article. Thanks. I enjoyed reading this. A Happy New Year to you.

Glynis Smy

Jan 20th, 2009

Brilliant! I learned something new, thanks

angel

Jan 30th, 2009

i have read somewhere,in an almanac i guess,that in the Philippines,it is rude to come in a gathering,or whatever social activities, on time..i was like,..what?..im from the phil.it’s not real.i think they’re exaggerating.

Kareesha

Mar 5th, 2009

oh wow i had to look this stuff up for homework and it really helped!! haha okay thanks bye

Noreen

Mar 9th, 2009

This is nice article, but I’m not sure how true the winking one about Indian’s is cos I’m Indian and I have never ever heard of it.

lea

Mar 9th, 2009

really nice article…. can you share us about some really exotic customs and traditions around the world

coco

Nov 5th, 2009

hey, red doesn’t mean horror in China, actually red packaging is welcome, especially in Chinese spring festival. Knife and clock might still cause offense if your friends from traditional family. But gift like Swiss knife which is small, practical has good reputation is ok.

Louie Jerome

Nov 5th, 2009

Coco: please read the article properly. It does not say that ‘red’ is bad in China, it speaks about ‘red’ in Japan!!!!

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